By Dr.Alok Kar
back, *poor illiterate parents* produced:
Professors.., whom I will refer to as *Group 'A'*.
These *Group 'A'*
Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable
personalities. Most of them:
👉trekked to school
👉went to farms
👉fetched water and
👉cared for domesticated animals
👉did some work
including trading after school to survive.
Now Group 'A' ,who have now
become Parents themselves are *producing Group 'B' Children*
These group B
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments
from nursery school through secondary schools to higher
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don't do
any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given
expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted*
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
🤔 In spite of
all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly. 😏
Parents cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group 'B',their Children
are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
🤔They find it
difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to
think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their
parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE
😴 *Where do you belong*❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the
unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in
wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the
realities of life. Teach them to grow to become *independent adults.* Teach
👉respect others and
confidence in themselves.
🤔Parents, discipline your children to become
disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*